The Buddha Bag Project
The Buddha Bag Projectby Kalen
Several years ago I made a quiet vow that I would never pass a homeless
person without giving them something or sharing whatever I had. Once,
all I actually had in the car was a bag of potato chips. But when I
handed them to the man, his face lit up and he very gleefully thanked
me. I have pretty much kept my vow but wonder (as I’m sure
most of us
do) if money we give is actually is just used to buy drink or drugs.
And maybe if I was homeless, all I would want is something to help me
escape the reality of my day also?
My mother recently moved to a retirement community on South Grand in
St. Louis. I make a lot of trips to her new home to bring her
“supplies” and I’ve noticed lots of
homeless standing
at the highway exit on Grand. I started keeping money handy so I could
quickly pass it threw the window. Then I thought
“wouldn’t
it be better if I handed them a bag of food?”
So I contacted a bunch of friends and said, “Why don’t we get together and assemble bags of stuff that we could hand to these people.” Everyone thought it was a great idea and I think we all went shopping.
I went to Costco and found those little cans of Vienna sausages
(I’m vegetarian but I’m pretty sure those people I
see are not), peanuts, fruit cups, trail mix bars, pudding cups, etc.
Another woman gathered plastic dinnerware and sanitary hand wipes and
napkins. One of the guys got stocking caps and the project began. There
were about 8 of us the first “bagging day”.
We wrapped the
dinnerware in the napkins, put the napkins in a plastic zip lock bag,
added hand wipes and put one of these in each of the bags we were
preparing. We planned on making 40 bags but ran short. So one of the
“baggers” pulled out some money and we went
shopping and got more stuff. What fun. Everyone grabbed about 5 bags
and took them with them at the end.
The idea is not to actively seek out homeless, but rather have the bags in your car and when you see someone – you just reach for a bag to give them. You can add money if you wish or not. You never leave your car or put yourself in any danger – you just pass the bags out the window to these people.
Soon everyone started getting creative with ideas on what could go into the bags. One person had received gift certificates to Walmart for his children for Christmas but refused to let them shop at Walmart. So he donated these to use. We were hoping to buy blankets but found the blankets were too expensive. We ended up buying thermal socks, hats, and soap and washcloths. My dentist donated sample tubes of toothpaste and I found toothbrushes (4 for $1) at the dollar store. Another friend sent us a sizable donation to help with the project and there was no stopping us.
We had a second
“bagging” session and the food items expanded and
some were “nixed”. The first time we tried apples
and oranges but found if we didn’t get rid of the bag within
a week, the fruit started getting nasty. We added small bottles of
water and those boxes of fruit juice. Pretzels made the
“basic food groups” list and we found many other
things. Soon we had another 40 bags ready for departure.
Some people donated
sleeping bags and blankets and we have been giving them out with the
bags also. With the clearance sales, we have found stocking caps for
only 50 cents and those “one size fit all” swami
gloves, 2 pair for 74 cents. We found packages of paper handkerchiefs
(10 for $1 at the dollar store). I found chocolate Santa’s on
sale after Christmas for only 10 cents each. But best of all, one of
our members is making neck scarves out of fleece remnants.
A
neat thing has happened. I found I have made many new friends. The
homeless on South Grand recognize my car and come over to me now. At
first, they were very puzzled when I handed them a bag but now they
know what they are. For our next bagging, I plan on putting such items
at hats, gloves, scarves, etc. in a separate bag so if I see someone
I’ve already given a bag to, I can remove this bag and just
give them
the food. After all, how many hats does one need?
I think we have all
learned quite a bit from this practice. Simply put, it make me more
aware of how many people are homeless and how fortunate I am to have a
home. I used to "not see" the homeless sometimes and now I am ALWAYS
actively looking for them. Others in our group report the same
phenomena. Buddhist practice is to "wake up" and become aware. To
appreciate and to develop compassion. What better way?
Why not start such a project in your community? It’s fun working together doing the bagging and it’s helpful to those in need. When I think about the Buddha, he was a homeless person begging for food. I think these homeless people are also Buddhas!
